So i ask myself is love an accessory for fashion? that's a question I hear woman ask all day long just not in those exact words (those are my own). Some women feel their lives are not complete unless they have someone to share it with .And on the other hand there are some woman that feel that their lives are complete ,complete with the love they give themselves.I feel both ways .I don't think anyone wants to grow old alone ,but i also feel that you came into the world alone and sometimes that's just how you go out of the world.My number one thing is that you have to love yourself first, how can you love someone else when you don't know how to love yourself? women in the early 1950's didn't quite know how to love themselves. they were trained from birth that being married and having a family was the only thing life had to offer and you were lucky if any man wanted to take you off your families hands.And so many women from that time period were gay and didn't know how to express it . my point is,time has changed but not that much. When you go to buy a home ,unless your filthy rich ,they prefer you be married . When you want to adopt a child they prefer you be married. When we all know single mothers and fathers have been known to do just as well as married couples.
Even though love does set off a certain glow which always looks good with any attire. If every morning when you wake up,whether single or not you look at yourself and say i love you and then get dressed and do you make up or what ever it is that makes you feel like you .for men it could be shaving or cutting your hair.but i feel everyone should feel pretty and presentable.the way that you get ready when your about to meet someone for the first time is how you should look all the time .Never get caught off guard.that happened to me once. Long story bearable, i was dating this guy when i showed his pic my friend said "oh wow you 2 don't look like you go together" i said "what do you mean " she said well the way he looks and they way you look just don't go together". yeah it hurt my feelings but it made me realize that he out shined me and i didn't like that.!Ever since then i take better care of myself and my looks I'm 31 and i shouldn't look like I'm older than that. But i love being beautiful and i love showing it.It makes me feel good . The plan was never to do it for him ,it was always about doing it for myself. so do something special for yourself today .i know economy is bad you can paint your own nails (i do ) give yourself a facial (i do)Walgreen's ,CVS, rite aid, these stores all have little things you can use to give yourself a mini at home spa day . all it takes is an hour . i know you got an hours i have kids and school and work and still make time to take time for me!! i suggest everyone do it!!