Is it better to fake it,than to be alone?

When you first meet someone, is it your Representative their meeting or the real you? This question has been pondering my brain for a long time.i have a very strong personality so when I first meet someone I tone it down a lot, but I wouldn't say I'm being fake. I would say I'm being conscience of other peoples reaction towards me and it protects me from getting hurt.But when it comes to relationships I know at first everyone is putting up a front.Your trying to be appeasing and attractive to the other person.But how far do you take the fake ness?Some people say its best to just be yourself the first time you meet someone that way they know what there getting themselves into.Others say you should slowly ease your personality on people giving them a chance to adapt to you.Talking to some people that have done research on domination in couples say that "people in these particular relationship have and understanding and trust and that's why they tend to have really healthy honest relationships.

To be involved in a dominant/submissive relationship is giving one person control of you entirely. Mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually. Sex is the least of this, most dom relationships have very little to do with the act of sex, but the actuality of handing over all power and thought to another person. Giving this much to another person means that you have to be completely honest. showing your fears ans feelings to this person gives them a better idea of how to please you. the submissive in this relationship has the majority of the power, knowing full well that one word will stop everything. This type of relationship is more open. they share truths with each other, knowing that the other person will not judge them. In the "normal" society you have to check your p's and q's. you make sure that you are politically correct in everything that you can do. because of the socially unacceptable attributes of most sexual relationships, we leave them undisguised because of a faux pas that may slip out of our mouths. if you have a partner you can be open and honest with, you have more trust. which is the biggest downfall of most American couples. Sex is dirty, that's how we're brought up. And with that comes secrets.

I feel there is someone out there for every one of us that will accept us for all our flaws and think all of our bad habits are cute.But you have to sift threw the asshole and bitches to have the experience to recognize when some one wants to love you for you.