Since I can remember, history always portrayed a man as the provider of the home and women were the caregivers of the home .The men take care of the bills and support the wife and kids ,which back then meant paying for everything.When you fast forward to the twentieth century, men feel that its not fair or equal and feel women have been taking a free ride on this rule that men made up.Men feel now you should pay for half the meal or hell even the whole damn thing.I know relationships aren't built around who makes more money or who pays for the most stuff.When talking amongst my women friends a lot of them look down on woman that work all day and there significant others stay home and do nothing.Now to me there's a difference between someone staying home and raising the children and keeping the house (maybe they cant afford daycare)and someone that just doesn't want to work and would rather you work and they keep house(but they don't keep the house clean).When your in a partnership your suppose to keep everything in order and work together to get through the rough patches.In all actuality there's always going to be one person in the relationship that makes more money.Success shouldn't be a punishment.These same women that make those comments switched there stories when they were asked about if there husbands lost their jobs would they stay and support or leave? of course the answers were they would stay. So i guess that means that we aren't biologically destine to be receivers, we are meant to be givers too.If your a successful hard working women that has a husband that stays home and tends to the house and kids give his ass a big hug and kiss and tell him he is appreciated. Vice verse for the men.Don't think because were women we were bread to just cook and clean and serve you . Remember the 50/50 rule!!!
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